Use this when you feel ready—not to force forgiveness, but to begin opening the door.
Duration: ~10–15 minutes
**Full Companion Guide: What is Forgiveness Really? (And Why Is It So Hard?)
Begin
Find a quiet space where you won’t be interrupted.
Sit or lie down in a way that feels supportive.
Gently close your eyes…
or soften your gaze.
Take a slow breath in…
and exhale fully.
Again… inhale…
and exhale, letting your body begin to settle.
There is nothing you need to rush here.
This is your space.
Grounding in Safety
Bring your awareness into your body.
Notice where you are supported—your back, your legs, your feet.
Feel the steadiness beneath you.
Take a moment to remind yourself:
“I am safe in this moment.”
Whatever you are about to feel…
you can handle it, one breath at a time.
Bringing the Situation Into Awareness
Now, gently bring to mind a person, situation, or experience you may be holding onto.
There is no need to choose the most painful one.
Start where it feels manageable.
Allow the memory to come in softly—without forcing details.
Just enough to recognize what you’re holding.
Notice what arises in your body…
sensations, emotions, thoughts.
You don’t need to change anything.
Just witness.
Honoring the Hurt
Before forgiveness… comes honesty.
Quietly acknowledge to yourself:
“That hurt.”
“That mattered.”
Allow yourself to feel whatever is present—without judgment.
Anger… sadness… disappointment… confusion…
All of it is valid.
Forgiveness does not ask you to skip this step.
It asks you to honor it.
Take a few breaths here.
Releasing the Weight
Now gently shift your awareness.
Not to what happened…
but to what you’ve been carrying because of it.
The tension.
The replaying thoughts.
The emotional weight.
Ask yourself softly:
“Am I ready to begin releasing this… even just a little?”
Not all at once.
Just a small opening.
If the answer is no—that’s okay.
Just stay present.
If the answer is yes—continue gently.
A Shift in Perspective
Now, if it feels safe to do so…
Allow yourself to see the situation from a wider lens.
Not to excuse what happened—
but to recognize that people act from their own wounds, limitations, and awareness.
This does not make it right.
But it can begin to loosen the hold it has on you.
Say quietly, if it feels true:
“I choose to release the grip this has on me.”
The Act of Letting Go
Imagine the weight you’ve been carrying… as something tangible.
Maybe it looks like:
- a heavy object
- a tight knot
- or something you’ve been holding in your hands
Now, gently imagine setting it down.
Not throwing it away.
Not denying it existed.
Just… placing it outside of you.
You are no longer carrying it.
Take a breath here.
Notice what shifts—however small.
Forgiveness (In Your Own Words)
Now, in your own way, repeat silently:
“I am ready to begin forgiving.”
or
“I am willing to move toward peace.”
If you’re not ready to fully forgive, that’s okay.
Even willingness is powerful.
Forgiveness is not a single moment—
it’s a direction.
Returning Your Energy
Bring your awareness back to yourself.
Your breath.
Your body.
Your presence.
Imagine calling your energy back to you—
from the past, from the situation, from what you’ve been holding.
Let it settle within you.
You are allowed to be whole again.
Closing
Take a deeper breath in…
and a slow breath out.
Notice your body.
Notice the space within you.
Even if nothing feels dramatically different—
something has begun.
When you’re ready, gently open your eyes.
After the Practice (Optional Reflection)
If you want to deepen this, journal:
- What did I notice during this practice?
- What am I still holding onto?
- What would peace look like for me moving forward?
A Gentle Reminder
Forgiveness is not about getting it perfect.
It’s about returning—again and again—
to your desire for peace.
And that alone… is enough.
Guided Devotional Practice: Forgiveness Through Surrender
Duration: ~10–15 minutes
“Be still, and know that I am God.” — Bible (Psalm 46:10)
Be Still
Find a quiet place.
Sit comfortably, or lie down.
Gently close your eyes…
and take a slow breath in…
then exhale fully.
Again… inhale…
and exhale, letting your body soften.
Let this be a moment where you don’t have to strive…
don’t have to figure anything out.
Just be still.
Entering God’s Presence
Bring your awareness to God.
Not as distant…
but near.
Closer than your thoughts.
Closer than your breath.
Quietly remind yourself:
“God is here with me.”
Let that settle.
You are seen.
You are known.
You are held.
Opening Your Heart Honestly
Now gently bring to mind the person or situation you’re struggling to forgive.
Don’t rush this.
Just allow it to come into your awareness.
Notice what rises in your heart.
And then, speak honestly to God:
“This hurt me.”
“I don’t fully understand this.”
“Part of me is still holding on.”
There is no need to filter your words.
God meets you in truth—not perfection.
Pause here.
Breathe.
Releasing the Burden
Now imagine what you’ve been carrying.
The weight of it…
the tension…
the emotional hold it has on you.
And gently picture placing it into God’s hands.
You don’t have to throw it away.
Just… release it.
Say quietly:
“I give this to You.”
Again:
“I don’t want to carry this alone anymore.”
Let your body soften as you do.
“Cast all your anxiety on Him because He cares for you.” — Bible (1 Peter 5:7)
Choosing Forgiveness (Even If It’s Small)
Forgiveness doesn’t have to be complete in this moment.
It can begin with willingness.
Quietly say:
“Help me forgive.”
or
“I am willing to move toward forgiveness.”
Even if it feels small…
even if it feels incomplete…
God can work with willingness.
Stay here for a few breaths.
“Forgive as the Lord forgave you.” — Bible (Colossians 3:13)
Receiving Peace
Now shift your focus.
Not to what you released…
but to what God offers in return.
Peace.
Not because everything is resolved—
but because you are no longer holding it alone.
Imagine that peace settling into your chest…
your breath…
your body.
Let it fill the space that was once tight with holding.
“My grace is sufficient for you.” — Bible (2 Corinthians 12:9)
Trusting the Process
Quietly remind yourself:
“God is working, even when I don’t see it.”
You don’t need all the answers.
You don’t need to resolve everything today.
Healing can unfold… slowly… gently… faithfully.
“He restores my soul.” — Bible (Psalm 23:3)
Closing
Take a deep breath in…
and a slow breath out.
When you’re ready, open your eyes.
Carry this with you:
You can return to God with this—again and again.
You are not alone in the process of letting go.
Ryne and Pixie 
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